By Scott Costello, MSW LCSW

When you told your spouse that you wanted a divorce, were they shocked? I find that men are often shocked to find out that their wife wants a divorce. It’s then that they start to make changes, sometimes substantial changes in their lifestyle, attitude, or behavior, in order to save the marriage. Wives tend to feel angry at this point.

“It shouldn’t have to come to this!” “I shouldn’t have to file for divorce in order to get him to change!”

“The changes he’s making are not sincere.” [Read more…]